Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Anonymous

So I've decided that it is pretty awesome to be anonymous. I mean, when you do something for someone and they see you do it or know that you did it, what do they do? They say thank you or otherwise express gratitude. That's a no brainer, and it's for sure a good thing, and in most cases I believe in that persons sincerity. However, it can't be denied that at least in part the motivation in that "thank you" was likely inspired by simple courtesy. Now, courtesy is a virtue that we should likewise aspire to, but if expressions of gratitude are hollow outside of courtesy then something needs to change. That however is another discussion entirely. So what's my point? When I give of myself anonymously and see the joy and appreciation, unobscured and unfettered by the demands of courtesy or anything else, that that inspires in people it makes me happy. Their gratitude is certainly pure of pretense and I like that.

6 comments:

  1. Wow...this was so flowery.... Lol, I think I feel bad because my blog is full of unhappy things. Then again, I'm almost concerned you have a run-on sentence there that is making the interpretation of this post a little difficult to understand. Don't worry though, I figured it out before I finished reading the first line :P

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  2. Good job anonymous! I agree that there is definitely a great feeling when you do something for someone without them knowing who--even more so than service given knowingly. I need to be more aware of the people around me and look for ways that I can make someone happy.

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  3. So now I'm wondering what nice thing you did for someone!

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  4. I am also curious about the nice thing that you did for someone.

    And it is true, there is no better feeling than seeing someone completely happy and grateful, especially when they dont know where it came from!

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  5. If I told you what it was then it wouldn't be anonymous anymore...
    Actually I don't mind telling you, but I'd rather not post it online for all to see...cause then it really does defeat the purpose of anonimity.

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  6. I agree!! I can remember when we first moved to Texas someone gave us several gifts for Christmas by leaving then on the porch, ringing the bell and running! it was awesome to know that people are so good and caring! To be that way also is very awesome!!

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