I'm not sure how much I can add to what anyone reading this already knows about this last weekend, or indeed, the three other similar occasions of this past year. Most of you were there or at least know all about it by now. I did however want to express in a few words my gratitude (in light of Thanksgiving) for what I consider to be a unique experience on my part.
As all of you well know, I have spent the past two years living out in Michigan in Jonathan's house. For the first year of this time I had Kayleigh as my next door neighbor. And while at the time I'd complain about the volume of her movies and music (I've still got lines from movies I've never seen memorized), given the suddenness of her passing, and considering the fact that I had spent the two years prior to that on my mission and away from everyone, I will forever be grateful for that year that I spent with her just next door, it is priceless to me. Her optimism and love still inspire me.
Similarly, in the past two years I've had the opportunity to make relatively frequent trips with Mom to Kentucky. A few of those trips were made when Granddaddy was still healthy. When he's be up long before the crack of dawn making sausage and eggs for our breakfast. I'm glad that I can still remember his laugh and smile from before the nursing home days. I'm grateful that I was able to watch movies with Uncle Joe in his bedroom with sprite to drink, he always had sprite, and that I was able to go to the movies with him (seems like all the older kids got to do that in the past, but this was my first time). He had a secret or two...I think it's funny that he wants it kept secret actually, but he told me not to tell, and I suppose I never will. He acted like it was a huge conspiracy, I was almost worried when he first started telling me...I almost laughed out loud when I found out what it was though. I'm grateful that I was able to go out and eat with all them at Shoney's and other places so often...we of course had to go out to eat at least once every time we were down there, you would have thought that it was the law that Granddaddy treat us to a meal at a restaurant. It was always funny to see him with Grandma Bloodworth, seemed like he could complain to her about something and sing her praises in all the same breath. They for sure belonged together.
I suppose all of these experiences have actually made it harder to say goodbye but I wouldn't trade them, I couldn't. I am grateful for all of you, my family and my friends! Please know that I treasure the moments we share together (I do apologize if that is too sappy for some of you but it has to be said) May we share many more! Thank you all.
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Not gonna lie...it's too sappy for me :P j/k. It's nice that you are able to have these memories and share them with other. Being able to look back at the happy times is proof that you are alive and living life to the fullest. Though death is a process of life, seems you've had more than your fair share this year. I think they are all signaling time to open a new door and start a new adventure. Time to get that cranium in gear and think about where it is that you want to start making new fun memories.
ReplyDeleteLife is just now starting to open the door as you exit returning home from your mission and transitioning into the next chapter. Get a pen, I have a feeling its going to be fun (I hope that wasn't too sappy :P)
Yay! You're finally blogging. That was a great post, sap and all. Even though most of us have written our own versions of the same experiences, they are all different. I enjoyed your perspective. And I'm kinda curious what secrets you're keeping for Joe!
ReplyDeleteI agree with Amy, that was great! Its nice to see that you have posted again. I told ya you could do it. I am also very curious about those secrets.
ReplyDeleteIt is great that you have all of those wonderful memories to hold on to!
Yeah...I wish you hadn't mentioned Joe's secret. It just sounds like something I'd love to hear! Now I'll be curious forever.
ReplyDeleteKeep posting! That was an awesome post and a great persective. You are a good writer!
Oh yeah, I need to make sure I show my celebration in the fact that you posted a new blog entry (after all the bugging and prodding I did it only took a few weeks to get you to write a new one)...But I'm sure you're going to post more regularly from now on though right, Timmy-boy? ;)
ReplyDeleteI loved this post!! I cried a little bit in the beginning but it was good tears! Keep the memories forever, they can help you when things get hard!!
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